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So, how do you hire the best family law lawyer? There are different kinds of family law lawyers.
There is the litigator. The litigator is aggressive, thinks on his feet, won't back down and will work hard so that you win. Only problem is, sometimes you don’t win. And the cost of a trial can be astronomical, sometimes $5,000 to $10,000 per day of court. On the other hand, when choosing your lawyer, you will want someone who knows the ins and outs of litigation. Isn't it wise to have the litigator's courtroom horse power under the hood just in case? What about the settlement lawyer? This lawyer understands you and gets your case. And she also understands the other side. She's a smooth negotiator who’s going to make sure the other side thinks they are going to win too. Win-win is her goal. She's’s a master of the meeting, of artful wording and making everyone feel good. She probably is an experienced mediator too. Only problem is, is she any good in court if the other side doesn't want to talk? What about the collaborator? The Collaborative Lawyer works with you and with everyone else to get the best result. He'll work with a financial advisor, a child expert, an appraiser. You’ll have the benefit of a team working to get your interests front and centre. And he'll work collaboratively with the other side so that they can become part of the solution, not the problem. The collaborator will draw options from a broader circle than the close purview of the litigator whose only goal is to win. But can the collaborator stand up and argue your case if need be? Can he call the other side’s bluff and go the extra mile when the other side refuses to collaborate? A good lawyer will be able to talk about the advantages and disadvantages of litigation and settlement options such as negotiation, mediation and collaborative law because that lawyer has been there and done that. A lawyer who knows what is happening in Court, has a track record of settling cases and who is a certified Collaborative Lawyer is your best bet. Start with a lawyer who understands all your legal options -- from litigation to mediation and everything in between -- because that lawyer has experience with each of those options. Then, work with that lawyer to choose the course that best suits you and your case
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6/9/2016 09:43:09 am
Wow, I had no idea that there are so many types of divorce attorneys available to the public. In my opinion, the power of an attorney who is experienced with litigation is something that you want to have. Although a lot of divorce cases don't go to court, you need to be sure that you are prepared just in case. Plus, I think that litigation skills are extremely important to have, and that more aggressive approach may help you in getting a better settlement, depending on the other party. 12/3/2017 10:59:08 pm
12/15/2017 03:47:43 am
You are right, hiring an experienced attorney is very important for proper divorce settlement. And also remember never sign divorce settlement papers without carefully examining the contents and understanding its implications. My husband and I have been getting into a lot more arguments than normal, and we've finally decided that we will both be happier if we get a divorce. Thanks for pointing out that a settlement lawyer will do his or her best to make sure that there is a win-win situation. I bear no ill-will towards my husband, so I think that I'd like to find a divorce lawyer like that to help me out. 4/19/2018 10:00:31 pm
That was informative one and you guided it in the right way. I agree with the way you have concluded the article. We must work with the lawyer who suits us and our case. 6/5/2018 07:42:03 pm
It's interesting how you point out that a good lawyer will be able to talk about the advantages and disadvantages of litigation and settlement options, since that lawyer has been there and done that. My best friend and her husband are going through a divorce right now, and they're having a hard time with all the negotiation and settlement options. I think it would be best if she hired an experienced lawyer to help her get through this whole process and figure out all of the nitty gritty details. 7/2/2018 05:37:29 pm
It really helped when you suggested choosing a lawyer who has all the knowledge and experience regarding the various legal options. I think that will be the most practical thing to do so that my sister will be hiring only one person with lots of skills already. She will be needing an expert since she needs to go separate ways with her husband who has abused her emotionally for years. Thanks! 7/2/2018 11:36:21 pm
Thanks for helping me understand that a good lawyer will be able to inform their clients about the advantages and disadvantages of the processes during the divorce proceedings. Personally, I think that is important because the common people don't really know a lot about these laws. Undergoing this kind of process is quite emotionally stressful, so it's really important to have someone to explain everything to them. I will relay this information with my best friend who has been meaning to file a divorce since her husband has been giving her problems financially due to addiction to gambling. 10/11/2018 06:17:35 pm
My cousin was telling me about her need for a divorce lawyer. She wants to get the professional help that she needs for her and her family. It might be useful for her to look for someone that has a positive track record. I like the definition of a collaborative lawyer you provided and how they work with everyone to get the best result. Hiring a good lawyer is important in a sensitive case like a divorce. If I meet anyone that is thinking about divorce, I'll emphasize the importance of hiring a reliable lawyer to maintain objectivity. 12/19/2018 10:13:20 am
I liked what you said about how a collaborative lawyer will work with you and with everyone else to get the best result. My sister and her husband are considering a divorce and she wants to find a good lawyer who can summon a team. Thank you for the information about how a collaborator will work with a financial advisor, a child expert, and an appraiser. 12/26/2018 07:20:14 am
It is important that you find an attorney with experience in family law to handle your divorce, meaning a substantial portion of their practice should be invested in family law cases. 1/4/2019 10:53:05 am
I agree that a good lawyer will help talk you through all litigation and settlement options. They will know all the details of the processes and which will work best for you. You want to find a lawyer who has your best interest in mind. 3/15/2019 08:15:05 pm
Going through a divorce is not an easy process as there is a lot of legal responsibilities to be taken care of. As you said here, it would be a good idea to find a lawyer that fits you, seeing as there are different kinds. I would probably go with the collaborator as they would be able to get me the best result possible. Leave a Reply. |
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